Humans are dispensed based on many things the major chunk of it being Gender where difference is only in the physical layout of the body and the basic reason for the difference is reproduction. In a world where more than seven billion lives prevail, nature is filled with huge diversification when it comes to livelihood but does not give birth to discrimination or promotes hierarchy. Nature has promoted the beauty of the world, where humans have promoted discrimination. Talking about flowers, Nature created Rose and Lotus, give them a separate specialisation, where we humans chose to discriminate among both of them. In the same way, Nature created Men and Women where we, the society chose to promote a world like the patriarchal society or pseudo feminism. The situation is the billions of females lost their lives or are facing domestic violence. The only being reason for such awful acts is the “Patriarchal system.-
Promoting men to be superior in the society.” A society that has without a second thought mentioned that all the females under the sky are inferior without having any winsome reason for it. Not pointing out to men, this system consists of women as well with with the birth of their child teach them, and are rising out the numbers in the Partrichal system. The fight is not among the men, the fight is against the group of people who are still in favour of the Patriarchal System.
‘Feminism’ is a product of the misconceptions prevailing in a society rapidly as only feminist attitude is about gender equality and not females being greater than males.’ It’s a simple thing of equality in all aspects of life, female colleagues getting the same pay as male colleagues or males taking paternity leaves to take care of the child or for other house chores.
Feminism is about removing toxic masculinity as males too, with females, are being oppressed in the patriarchal set-up. Not allowing women to move out of their house freely as some horrible creatures are waiting to grab the pretty souls.”, Men don’t cry”, “a man has no place in the kitchen”, “a male can’t share his feelings cause it’ll make him weak”, Women being accused due to judgment made on the type of clothes they wear are some common examples we see every day.
Divya Gandotra Tandon (19), the owner of startups Scoop Beats, talk about feminism to Worldly Voice, “If you want my point of view then I would say that Yes nowadays it is becoming very common that these days so-called feminists just blame men for everything happens with them, False accusations are becoming very common these days and there is no action against females on the same”.
“If there are strict laws against men then there should be the same for women. If we say not all women are wrong, likewise not all men are wrong. In the current scenario, women have been seen doing publicity stunts by abusing men in public, which is wrong”. She Says.
Now as we are living in the 21st century, we have started talking about periods and pregnancy pain, where first it was considered as tabu. The problem is that people were not ready to talk about it. Moreover, the society is not literate enough to accept it where both of the sights being the happiest period of women’s life still women are restricted from performing chores for that period. Coming to the facts, women are creating such environments for women, where the advantage has been deprived by the men as they promote it as they find that it’s the truth or is in their favour. Now as the society is ready to talk about periods, the females want men to accept it and understand that phase of life what they are going through, but forget that the changes require time to be accepted. The awareness is needed to be spread, not only to the adults male, the awareness needs to be spread in the younger generations for smooth on-going life.
Male-bashing is promoted by pseudo-feminist, where it’s men who are bashing men. The father is seen bullying his sons for expressing too many “feminine” interests. Men are the ones who are captured putting ice on each other out emotionally, teaching each other that tenderness and emotional support should not be present publically or with women and that reaching out to another guy is weak, also it is prevailing as women consider themselves to have strong six senses and also by calling men emotional fools, where all these being more sexist comments as each human have been brought up in the different environment and had learnt from different experiences of life, where their personality varies from each other.
Considering, well- being of both men and women, the patriarchal society has affected a ton of both of them, where we in a society has to stand against those who are in a support of the Patriarchal society. As incidents in every are very common these days, the younger brother being sent to the market with her elder sister as a bodyguard or investigator, men cannot cry on their own mother’s funeral as they are strong enough and if they, they are questioned about their gender, men cannot have an emotion of fear, cannot deny any work, Is this not emotional castration?
Society had made all the men unidimensional were the only trait which they are taught is to earn money, the reason being they are trapped under the patriarchal system. The danger being, they have uplifted the patriarchal system but has put a full stop to their willing soul, which clearly states end to their life where liberty prevails. Now, as years have passed, men do understand the demerits patriarchal society is causing them and also that it’s a win for both genders if equality prevails.
I firmly believe that Men bashing is a symbol of the Patriarchal system, not Feminism where let’s spread the power of love and equality and let us all together bring an end to the Patriarchal system.